How does one succeed in life?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Do you like high heels?

Does not procrastinate.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

My boyfriend always verbally abuse me and makes me cry. If I try to tell him how hurt I was, he says to me he loves me and can't hurt me but always abuse me. Why?

Making more friends is a goal.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

How often do you watch the news on TV?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

What are some tips for braiding a woman's hair on a date?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Help. I’m 16 and just got spanked by both of my parents for taking the car. What do I do? I want to run off somewhere but I’m so scared that I’ll get spanked again. I’ve never gotten the paddle before and I’m still scared to sit

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

How did Madri, mother of Nakula and Sahadeva die?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Why are there so many single moms in America?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Shouldn’t there be a short porn platform like TikTok?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Do you anal play alone?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Procrastinates a lot.

How do flat Earthers explain the existence of other spherical planets?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

I have BPD. Why do I destroy everyone I love?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Why do people always talk about Ohio as it's a dangerous city?

That's it for today.

What I need from you?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Why do men think I’m easy just by looking at me?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Do you think trump realizes that if he significantly decreases the size of CIA, that there is a higher chance of him being assassinated?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Ask yourself:

What contributed to the popularity of The Beatles' song 'Yesterday'? Was it due to its simplicity, lyrics, or other factors?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Do not set goals—set systems.